Don't be too hard on yourself. Sometimes things that seem obvious to one person aren't clear at all to another — that's just a reflection of their different experiences.
[Says the woman who was once so egocentric that she couldn't figure out why anyone wouldn't do things her way every time all the time. #character development.]
You might start by picking a friend you admire and seeing where their interests lie. Or solve two of your problems at once, and ask someone you've never met to teach you something they like to do. Then you learn a new skill, and maybe make a new friend to share it with all at once.
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[Says the woman who was once so egocentric that she couldn't figure out why anyone wouldn't do things her way every time all the time. #character development.]
You might start by picking a friend you admire and seeing where their interests lie. Or solve two of your problems at once, and ask someone you've never met to teach you something they like to do. Then you learn a new skill, and maybe make a new friend to share it with all at once.